The 16th in Malaysia, Jing-Si Books & Cafe (Tropicana City Mall) will open business this Friday (16/09/2011). We sincerely welcome friends and family come to enjoy the books, a taste of tea, coffee and spiritual incense, let us come together to support this newly established community living room !

書軒地點：位於八打靈的 Tropicana City Mall （購物商場第二層，Lot L2-42）
啟業時間：16-9-2011（星期五）10am
每日營業時間：10am-10pm
書軒電話：03-7731 1640
書軒電郵：tcmjingsi@gmail.com

Jing-Si Books & Cafe Location : Tropicana City Mall, Lot L2-42
Opening Business : 16/9/2011 (Friday) 10am
Daily Business Hour : 10am to 10pm
Tel : 03-7731 1640
Email : tcmjingsi@gmail.com

靜思書軒（Tropicana City Mall 店）外觀
Outer look of Jing-Si Books & Cafe

靜思書軒（Tropicana City Mall 店）書區構想圖
Books Area (Quiet Ambient for Reading )

靜思書軒（Tropicana City Mall 店）飲品區構想圖
A Very Nice Refreshment Area (Simple but Comfortable)

Tropicana City Mall 位置圖
Tropicana City Mall Location Map

Tropicana City Mall 外觀
Tropicana City Mall View

The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarship in school?” and the youth answered “none”. The director asked, ” Is it your father pay for your school fees?” the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, ” Where did your mother worked?” the youth answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect to the director. The director asked, ” Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth before?” The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash cloths faster than me.The director said, I had a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother’s hand, and then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother’s hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the kid. The youth cleaned his mother’s hand slowly, his tear drop down as he did that. It is first time he found his mother’s hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incites pains so strong that shiver her mother’s body when cleaned with water.

This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mother’s hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office. The director noticed the tear in the youth’s eye, asked: ” Can you tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?” The youth answered, ” I cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes’.

The director asked, ” please tell me your feeling.”

The youth said, Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done. Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, ” This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company’s result improved tremendously.

A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed “entitlement mentality” and always put himself first. He is ignorance of his parent’s effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others. For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid?

You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done.

In The Busy City Life, There Are Many People Who Are Always Busy With Work.
These People Revolve Their Lives Around Their Jobs.

These People Sacrifice All Their Times And Health To Meet The Social Expectations. They Are Unwilling To Spend Times On Health Care. They Miss The Opportunity To Be With Their Children In Their Growing Up. They Neglect The Loved Ones Who Care For Them And Also Their Health.

Nobody Knows What Is Going To Happen One Year From Now.

You May Come Across The Followings :

In This Life, What Did You Miss?
The Wife Asked The Husband When She Was 25 .
Despondently, The Husband replied: I Missed A New Job Opportunity

When She Was 35,
The Husband Angrily Told her That He Had Just Missed The Bus .

At 45, The Husband Sadly Said:
I Missed The Opportunity Seeing My Closed Relative Before His Last Breath.

At 55, The Husband said disappointingly:
I Missed A Good Chance To Retire.

At 65, The Husband Hurriedly Replied:
I Missed A Dental Appointment.

At 75, The Wife Did Not Ask The Husband Anymore, The Husband Was Kneeling In Front Of The Very Sick Wife. Remembering The Question The Wife Used To Ask Him, This Time He Asked The Wife The Same Question. The Wife , With A Smile And Peaceful Look, Replied: In This Life, I Did Not Miss Having You!

The Husband Was Full Of Tears. He Always Thought That They Could Be Together Forever. He Was Always Busy With Work And Trifles.
So Much So He Had Never Been Thoughtful To His Wife.
The Husband Hugged The Wife Tightly And Said: Over 50 Years, How I Had Allowed Myself To Miss Your Deep Love For Me.

Friends,
Life Is Not Permanent
So Always Live In The Now.
Express Your Gratitude To Your Loved Ones In Words.
Show Your Care With Actions.
Treat Everyday As The Last Episode Of Life.
In This Way, When You are Gone
You Loved Ones Would Have Nothing To Feel Sorry About.